A friend recently informed me of the 3 separate B's. These include separate Bank accounts (which we plan on eventually joining into one), separate Blankets (wont happen because we only have 1 awesome comforter), and lastly separate Bathrooms (this has been great- definitely recommend it). With separate bathrooms we have no back up in the morning, we each clean our own bathroom at our own convenience and I don't have to worry about the seat left up! Last night we tried for the first separate Bedrooms. No it wasn't because of a fight- I have a cold. Hate to say it but I slept really well... however, it was very lonely and we will not do separate bedrooms again. "Separate" may save your marriage on a few fights but isn't that what marriage is about- conquering the challenges together.
